Silver Stars PEMDAS
What if pemdas has another meaning set it also stands for, consider this,
Percieve experience meaning decision action survey and in between each is feeling. I think we do this a bit backwards we typically do something like percieve survey action decision experience meaning we are already thinking about possible outcomes before we truly experience we react without stopping for thought which causes so much misunderstanding now a days it's wild and causes things like estrangement and fighting arguing over seemingly irrational reasons sometimes. Consider the pemdas order for a moment.
Percieve first then feel( when we feel In between that should also be our pause moment) experience allow yourself to truly experience what you're perceiving then feel and pause again meaning then comes naturally we then feel and pause with that realization then we make a decision then feel then put it into action, then survey what occured from our decision and repeat this with everything and multiple times sometimes each pause is us thinking on what we have perceived and felt,experienced and feeling it's impact on us and those around us. We learn and grow from this method but I think we have got it all twisted up and that's nobodies fault really. Consider when you change the order you get little to no pause feeling becomes fueled by the emergent situation not experience so reactions become more aggressive and defensive in nature and we loop on this repeatedly more and more. Hmmm just a thought 🤔 but maybe it's something we should all think about. Stars are not ours to grab and hold. Our actions should speak louder than words they should come after meaning not before at least how I percieve it.